看看男人怎么说：什么是世界上无价之宝？ |
［九月导读］ 几个星期前朋友纵然君（纵然平行）在他的博客里展开了一个很有意义的活动，请网友们加入他一起思考一个问题： 《在你的心目中, 什么是世界上无价之宝?》。
纵然君也友好地期望邀请我们博客里的朋友们参加。我想了一下，建议他说: 既然你活动里的发言者都是女性，那么何不让我们问一问宇宙的另一半，男人们是怎样看待这个问题的呢？
于是，我邀请了几位男士们一起参加这个活动。今天纵然君把思考讨论做成一贴，我也征得他的同意，转贴于此，和这里的朋友们分享。
From 九月 To:
Blue.Crab, 清风明月, 飘尘永魂, sharptooth, 5speed, sunzi888，笑林，纵然平行
First and the foremost，thanks so much for your great efforts，thanks for your support and the enthusiasms！
I suspect that I cannot make a statement such as, we, the human beings are the only creative species in the entire Universe. However, I believe that I can certainly declare that we are the most and only creative creatures of this planet we are standing on.
What makes us creative? There is only one instrument, that is, the individual mind and spirit of a man/woman. Nothing was ever the same from two beings, not in art, in music,in poetry, in mathematics, in philosophy...
Although this survey may hint that many of us are on the different paths and stages in pursuing various goals, but, unmistakably, if you look close enough; there is one thing we are all share in common, strikingly: individualism - the very spirit of humanity that has been made this world worth to live.
Here we go, reading each person's "most invaluable thing in his/her life", we can clearly see that if we combine our insights and wisdom all together, what a beautiful World, what a miracle Universe it will be.
The preciousness lies in the lonely mind of a being.
With this said, no matter what is the "most invaluable thing in your life", I would say that the free, exploring and creative mind of an individual human is the most invaluable thing in the world.
Thanks gents, for the diversified minds of yours and mine!
《在你的心目中, 什么是世界上无价之宝?》
答案-1： 爱 (love)
撰写人: Blue.Crab
My answer is very simple and has only one word– love. There are a lot of important things in life.However, without love, nothing is meaningful.
答案-2： 最高的身心健康分布系数
撰写人: 清风明月
这两天脑海里在7，8个选象中取舍（生命，时间，爱，健康，信仰。。。）。 难到就没有一个能包括全部的选象吗？哈哈，想出来了， 我选：身心健康分布系数， 我把它叫身体加心理的非线性组合值。
身体健康是基本的，如果有残疾，心理健康很高的话， 可以弥补，如霍金。
身体健康，而心理不健康，系数值绝对很低。如四肢发达，满脑子坏水的人，生命和时间对他毫无意义， 生不如死。
心理健康包括我能想到的所有美好,如：珍惜时间， 爱人，爱己，爱美，感恩。。。
次系数越高越好，每个人都不一样。 我的选象就是一个： the most invaluable thing in the world is:追求自己最高的身心健康分布系数。
答案-3：美好
撰写人: 飘尘永魂
发现弘扬美好在这美好被淡忘的时代，是愚拙如我觉得最有意义的事。
答案-4： 需求被滿足且珍惜拥有
撰写人: sharptooth
Some people may say the most invaluable thing in our life is family, friends, love, health...some others may say as long as I've a piece of roof on top of me, three meals a day, I'd be happy, so the most invaluable thing is to satisfy a being's basic needs.
With the above said, inevitably, the word"satisfaction" comes to my mind. Everyone's wants and needs are different, hence, the most invaluable thing in my life is "to be satisfied, to know how to appreciate what I have in my hand", it could be all gone by tomorrow.
答案-5： 坚定的理想信念
撰写人: 5speed (五速)
对于我来说,要想造就一个成功的人生,下面几条当属必须: 1)善于捉拿机遇; 2)坚定的理想信念; 3)顽强的承受能力; 和4)具才华洞世情.
而如果我必须从这四条中选择一条的话, 那么我以为"坚定的理想信念"当是最珍贵最不能失去的. "坚定的理想信念"是履行使命，达到目标的精神动力，是立身做人的精神支柱。
信念能助人克服困难，战胜挫折，向既定的目标顽强努力，向更高的目标继续忠实前进; 信念也能使人在受到威胁遇到困境时,不放弃自己的做事做人准绳,做一个顶天立地无愧自己良心的人.
答案-6： Nothing
撰写人: 笑林
"what is the most invaluable thing in your life or in the world?"
Nothing. Nothing is permanent in the existence.
Everything is constantly moving, changing.
I am only a miniscule happening in the vast existence.
I come from nothing. I will fall back to nothing.
When I am in touch with the nothingness, the source of my creation,
my life will be totally different.
答案-7： 朋友和友谊
撰写人: sunzi888 (逸宽)
这是一个很大的哲学题目。我想我是否应该如此理解它的含义： - 对我来说，而不是对别人来说。。。- “Would be”是虚拟语态的假设，“is 或 was” 就感到实在一些 - “Life” 跟“world” 的范畴不同，想来答案也会不同。
对我来说，生命当中最重要（不可或缺）的东西太多了。。。水、空气、阳光、食物、睡眠、等等，这些都是维持我这个生（动）物体延续的必不可少的条件。
内在的意识形态的东西，如：思想、逻辑、认识、体会、感受、欣赏、理解、爱和被爱。那些是身内之物。
外在的上层建筑的东西，如：艺术、文学、音乐、哲学、美学、历史、等等。那些则是身外之物。
还有一样东西对我来说极为重要：朋友和友谊。离开朋友简直是一件让我无法继续生存的事情。。。正是通过与各种各样朋友的交往，我才真正全面地认识我自己。
答案-8： 执着的感情（Lasting Affection）
撰写人: 纵然平行
If my life would end today, there is only one thing that I’d be able to take it with me to my grave and still be contented; I’ll choose，without any hesitation，lasting affection. People may puzzle about my choice; I don’t blame you since affection is an intangible thing not to mention leaving a door wide open for individual interpretation. But to me, affection has been the very true force that lead me onto my quests to this far and predictably down on the road that I will farther embark.
In my mind, lasting affection is the most magicaland magnificent creature that I want to embrace and endow it until my last breath. Simply put, it includes love and devotion，amplifies trust and loyalty and elevates care and sacrifice.
It’s an undisputed fact that each of us is capable to love someone, yet can each of us be able to devote our energies and capacities unconditionally and perpetually without asking for returns from the beginning to the end?
Romantic love alone may fall short to answer this simple question. As most of us who have experienced love may know, passion may dazzle us in the beginning, but oftentimes when physical attractions between lovers wear off. In many cases, the sizzling craving would fizzle, replaced with boredom and lassitude. But on the other hand, the deep affection toward the person we love, no matter if it is true romantic love or kinship is able to answer the question leaving no doubts at all.
If I can give an example to illustrate my belief: Lasting affection is something that crosses between the devotion that showed in the way that Mencius’ mother loved his son and the faithfulness from Romeo and Juliet,in which even death didn’t set their souls apart.
I think that I am really a lucky guy. My life have been consummated with such affections that bestowed by my family and the girls loved and loves me. Without that core, it is absolutely impossible for me to overcome the hindrances laid on my path and to reach the place I stand now. For that, I am eternally grateful because today I am happier, stronger and more resilient than ever before. More importantly, I’ve begun my own rewarding and enriching journey to express my own affections towards those people I love deeply with my devotion, passion and loyalty.
To summarize my reason to pick the most invaluable in my mind: Lasting affections enable people, without an expectation in return, to offer their most sacred resources to others in the depth and distance that love alone falls short to measure.
由九月豆张贴 wenxuecity
女人到了40
Lan Zhang
女人到了40，恰似珍藏恰倒好處的美酒，汲取歲月的精髓，日月思念的沈澱，如茅台的芬芳，不飲聞之即醉；40歲的女人更是氣質深邃雍容華貴,國色天香。舉止優雅，儀態豐韻，都在舉止啓唇中流瀉無遺；從聰明伶俐的日子，走過聰慧的敏銳，到40歲的女人，才有圓融的智慧，而能擁著自己的心中那美好的一切，都釀做人間極品般的韻味，隨智慧浮動那久久不絕的暗香.
40多的女人才是真正寬容的，懂男人的女人，知道男人身上的重量，和男人脆弱時候需要的胸懷和溫柔的撫摩。身體，經驗，智慧，能隨每一個細節的感觸，而讓女人登上了最輝煌的黃金階段的燦爛光華。
40歲的女人，才明白分寸和愛之間的得心應手的把，更懂得男人的空間和女人一樣，需要放飛的時空。40歲的女人讓人男人敬仰，愛而不能不尊重心疼的夢想；不是狂風暴雨的猛烈，勝似狂風的溫柔如晨曦舒展。
40歲的女人，才真正懂得什麽是愛，什麽才是情，什麽是人間最珍貴的情懷，什麽才是自然最美的風景。而智慧總讓40的女人，在愛、笑、和一舉一動間，也在輕啓溫柔的唇中，展示著真女人不可比擬的，綿綿不絕的韻味和溫潤的光芒。
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